THE trader accustomed to the manners of Eastern Polynesia has a lesson to
learn among the Gilberts. The RIDI is but a spare attire; as late as thirty
years back the women went naked until marriage; within ten years the custom
lingered; and these facts, above all when heard in description, conveyed a very
false idea of the manners of the group. A very intelligent missionary described
it (in its former state) as a 'Paradise of naked women' for the resident whites.
It was at least a platonic Paradise, where Lothario ventured at his peril. Since
1860, fourteen whites have perished on a single island, all for the same cause,
all found where they had no business, and speared by some indignant father of a
family; the figure was given me by one of their contemporaries who had been more
prudent and survived. The strange persistence of these fourteen martyrs might
seem to point to monomania or a series of romantic passions; gin is the more
likely key. The poor buzzards sat alone in their houses by an open case; they
drank; their brain was fired; they stumbled towards the nearest houses on
chance; and the dart went through their liver. In place of a Paradise the trader
found an archipelago of fierce husbands and of virtuous women. 'Of course if you
wish to make love to them, it's the same as anywhere else,' observed a trader
innocently; but he and his companions rarely so choose.
The trader must be credited with a virtue: he often makes a kind and loyal
husband. Some of the worst beachcombers in the Pacific, some of the last of the
old school, have fallen in my path, and some of them were admirable to their
native wives, and one made a despairing widower. The position of a trader's wife
in the Gilberts is, besides, unusually enviable. She shares the immunities of
her husband. Curfew in Butaritari sounds for her in vain. Long after the bell is
rung and the great island ladies are confined for the night to their own roof,
this chartered libertine may scamper and giggle through the deserted streets or
go down to bathe in the dark. The resources of the store are at her hand; she
goes arrayed like a queen, and feasts delicately everyday upon tinned meats. And
she who was perhaps of no regard or station among natives sits with captains,
and is entertained on board of schooners. Five of these privileged dames were
some time our neighbours. Four were handsome skittish lasses, gamesome like
children, and like children liable to fits of pouting. They wore dresses by day,
but there was a tendency after dark to strip these lendings and to career and
squall about the compound in the aboriginal RIDI. Games of cards were
continually played, with shells for counters; their course was much marred by
cheating; and the end of a round (above all if a man was of the party) resolved
itself into a scrimmage for the counters. The fifth was a matron. It was a
picture to see her sail to church on a Sunday, a parasol in hand, a nursemaid
following, and the baby buried in a trade hat and armed with a patent
feeding-bottle. The service was enlivened by her continual supervision and
correction of the maid. It was impossible not to fancy the baby was a doll, and
the church some European playroom. All these women were legitimately married. It
is true that the certificate of one, when she proudly showed it, proved to run
thus, that she was 'married for one night,' and her gracious partner was at
liberty to 'send her to hell' the next morning; but she was none the wiser or
the worse for the dastardly trick. Another, I heard, was married on a work of
mine in a pirated edition; it answered the purpose as well as a Hall Bible.
Notwithstanding all these allurements of social distinction, rare food and
raiment, a comparative vacation from toil, and legitimate marriage contracted on
a pirated edition, the trader must sometimes seek long before he can be mated.
While I was in the group one had been eight months on the quest, and he was
still a bachelor.
Within strictly native society the old laws and practices were harsh, but not
without a certain stamp of high-mindedness. Stealthy adultery was punished with
death; open elopement was properly considered virtue in comparison, and
compounded for a fine in land. The male adulterer alone seems to have been
punished. It is correct manners for a jealous man to hang himself; a jealous
woman has a different remedy - she bites her rival. Ten or twenty years ago it
was a capital offence to raise a woman's RIDI; to this day it is still punished
with a heavy fine; and the garment itself is still symbolically sacred. Suppose
a piece of land to be disputed in Butaritari, the claimant who shall first hang
a RIDI on the tapu-post has gained his cause, since no one can remove or touch
it but himself.
The RIDI was the badge not of the woman but the wife, the mark not of her sex
but of her station. It was the collar on the slave's neck, the brand on
merchandise. The adulterous woman seems to have been spared; were the husband
offended, it would be a poor consolation to send his draught cattle to the
shambles. Karaiti, to this day, calls his eight wives 'his horses,' some trader
having explained to him the employment of these animals on farms; and Nanteitei
hired out his wives to do mason-work. Husbands, at least when of high rank, had
the power of life and death; even whites seem to have possessed it; and their
wives, when they had transgressed beyond forgiveness, made haste to pronounce
the formula of deprecation - I KANA KIM. This form of words had so much virtue
that a condemned criminal repeating it on a particular day to the king who had
condemned him, must be instantly released. It is an offer of abasement, and,
strangely enough, the reverse - the imitation - is a common vulgar insult in
Great Britain to this day. I give a scene between a trader and his Gilbert
Island wife, as it was told me by the husband, now one of the oldest residents,
but then a freshman in the group.
'Go and light a fire,' said the trader, 'and when I have brought this oil I
will cook some fish.' The woman grunted at him, island fashion. 'I am not a pig
that you should grunt at me,' said he.
'I know you are not a pig,' said the woman, 'neither am I your slave.'
'To be sure you are not my slave, and if you do not care to stop with me, you
had better go home to your people,' said he. 'But in the mean time go and light
the fire; and when I have brought this oil I will cook some fish.'
She went as if to obey; and presently when the trader looked she had built a
fire so big that the cook-house was catching in flames.
'I KANA KIM!' she cried, as she saw him coming; but he recked not, and hit
her with a cooking-pot. The leg pierced her skull, blood spouted, it was thought
she was a dead woman, and the natives surrounded the house in a menacing
expectation. Another white was present, a man of older experience. 'You will
have us both killed if you go on like this,' he cried. 'She had said I KANA
KIM!' If she had not said I KANA KIM he might have struck her with a caldron. It
was not the blow that made the crime, but the disregard of an accepted formula.
Polygamy, the particular sacredness of wives, their semi-servile state, their
seclusion in kings' harems, even their privilege of biting, all would seem to
indicate a Mohammedan society and the opinion of the soullessness of woman. And
not so in the least. It is a mere appearance. After you have studied these
extremes in one house, you may go to the next and find all reversed, the woman
the mistress, the man only the first of her thralls. The authority is not with
the husband as such, nor the wife as such. It resides in the chief or the
chief-woman; in him or her who has inherited the lands of the clan, and stands
to the clansman in the place of parent, exacting their service, answerable for
their fines. There is but the one source of power and the one ground of dignity
- rank. The king married a chief-woman; she became his menial, and must work
with her hands on Messrs. Wightman's pier. The king divorced her; she regained
at once her former state and power. She married the Hawaiian sailor, and behold
the man is her flunkey and can be shown the door at pleasure. Nay, and such
low-born lords are even corrected physically, and, like grown but dutiful
children, must endure the discipline.
We were intimate in one such household, that of Nei Takauti and Nan Tok'; I
put the lady first of necessity. During one week of fool's paradise, Mrs.
Stevenson had gone alone to the sea-side of the island after shells. I am very
sure the proceeding was unsafe; and she soon perceived a man and woman watching
her. Do what she would, her guardians held her steadily in view; and when the
afternoon began to fall, and they thought she had stayed long enough, took her
in charge, and by signs and broken English ordered her home. On the way the lady
drew from her earring-hole a clay pipe, the husband lighted it, and it was
handed to my unfortunate wife, who knew not how to refuse the incommodious
favour; and when they were all come to our house, the pair sat down beside her
on the floor, and improved the occasion with prayer. From that day they were our
family friends; bringing thrice a day the beautiful island garlands of white
flowers, visiting us any evening, and frequently carrying us down to their own
maniap' in return, the woman leading Mrs. Stevenson by the hand like one child
with another.
Nan Tok', the husband, was young, extremely handsome, of the most approved
good humour, and suffering in his precarious station from suppressed high
spirits. Nei Takauti, the wife, was getting old; her grown son by a former
marriage had just hanged himself before his mother's eyes in despair at a
well-merited rebuke. Perhaps she had never been beautiful, but her face was full
of character, her eye of sombre fire. She was a high chief-woman, but by a
strange exception for a person of her rank, was small, spare, and sinewy, with
lean small hands and corded neck. Her full dress of an evening was invariably a
white chemise - and for adornment, green leaves (or sometimes white blossoms)
stuck in her hair and thrust through her huge earring-holes. The husband on the
contrary changed to view like a kaleidoscope. Whatever pretty thing my wife
might have given to Nei Takauti - a string of beads, a ribbon, a piece of bright
fabric - appeared the next evening on the person of Nan Tok'. It was plain he
was a clothes-horse; that he wore livery; that, in a word, he was his wife's
wife. They reversed the parts indeed, down to the least particular; it was the
husband who showed himself the ministering angel in the hour of pain, while the
wife displayed the apathy and heartlessness of the proverbial man.
When Nei Takauti had a headache Nan Tok' was full of attention and concern.
When the husband had a cold and a racking toothache the wife heeded not, except
to jeer. It is always the woman's part to fill and light the pipe; Nei Takauti
handed hers in silence to the wedded page; but she carried it herself, as though
the page were not entirely trusted. Thus she kept the money, but it was he who
ran the errands, anxiously sedulous. A cloud on her face dimmed instantly his
beaming looks; on an early visit to their maniap' my wife saw he had cause to be
wary. Nan Tok' had a friend with him, a giddy young thing, of his own age and
sex; and they had worked themselves into that stage of jocularity when
consequences are too often disregarded. Nei Takauti mentioned her own name.
Instantly Nan Tok' held up two fingers, his friend did likewise, both in an
ecstasy of slyness. It was plain the lady had two names; and from the nature of
their merriment, and the wrath that gathered on her brow, there must be
something ticklish in the second. The husband pronounced it; a well-directed
cocoa-nut from the hand of his wife caught him on the side of the head, and the
voices and the mirth of these indiscreet young gentlemen ceased for the day.
The people of Eastern Polynesia are never at a loss; their etiquette is
absolute and plenary; in every circumstance it tells them what to do and how to
do it. The Gilbertines are seemingly more free, and pay for their freedom (like
ourselves) in frequent perplexity. This was often the case with the topsy-turvy
couple. We had once supplied them during a visit with a pipe and tobacco; and
when they had smoked and were about to leave, they found themselves confronted
with a problem: should they take or leave what remained of the tobacco? The
piece of plug was taken up, it was laid down again, it was handed back and
forth, and argued over, till the wife began to look haggard and the husband
elderly. They ended by taking it, and I wager were not yet clear of the compound
before they were sure they had decided wrong. Another time they had been given
each a liberal cup of coffee, and Nan Tok' with difficulty and disaffection made
an end of his. Nei Takauti had taken some, she had no mind for more, plainly
conceived it would be a breach of manners to set down the cup unfinished, and
ordered her wedded retainer to dispose of what was left. 'I have swallowed all I
can, I cannot swallow more, it is a physical impossibility,' he seemed to say;
and his stern officer reiterated her commands with secret imperative signals.
Luckless dog! but in mere humanity we came to the rescue and removed the cup.
I cannot but smile over this funny household; yet I remember the good souls
with affection and respect. Their attention to ourselves was surprising. The
garlands are much esteemed, the blossoms must be sought far and wide; and though
they had many retainers to call to their aid, we often saw themselves passing
afield after the blossoms, and the wife engaged with her own in putting them
together. It was no want of only that disregard so incident to husbands, that
made Nei Takauti despise the sufferings of Nan Tok'. When my wife was unwell she
proved a diligent and kindly nurse; and the pair, to the extreme embarrassment
of the sufferer, became fixtures in the sick-room. This rugged, capable,
imperious old dame, with the wild eyes, had deep and tender qualities: her pride
in her young husband it seemed that she dissembled, fearing possibly to spoil
him; and when she spoke of her dead son there came something tragic in her face.
But I seemed to trace in the Gilbertines a virility of sense and sentiment which
distinguishes them (like their harsh and uncouth language) from their brother
islanders in the east.
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