8. 我們沒有財產不一定就會快樂,我們有很多財產也不一定就會擔憂或者會快樂。這個快樂不快樂,不能用財產來衡量,主要是看我們的心。即使我們有財產,不過我們不看重它,把它用在對的地方,也是算沒有財產,也是算我們放得下。如果我們沒有財產,又賺不了錢,然後在那邊「吃不到葡萄說葡萄酸」,這樣也不能算是真正快樂的人。
9. 故事裡面的這個人大概是真正快樂的人,我們從他講話的口氣就可以瞭解。事實上,真正快樂的心不是從財產而來,也不是從貧窮而來。
TheDeathbedWordsOfAodailiHepburn奧黛麗?赫本的遺言
1. Forattractivelips,speakwordsofkindness.
2. Forlovelyeyes,seekoutthegoodinpeople.
3. Foraslimfigure,shareyourfoodwiththehungry.
4. Forbeautifulhair,letachildrunhisorherfingersthroughitonceaday.
5. Forpoise,walkwiththeknowledgethatyouneverwalkalone.
6. People,evenmorethanthings,havetoberestored,revived,reclaimedandredeemed;neverthrowoutanyone.
7. Remember,ifyoueverneedahelpinghand,you』llfindthemattheendofeachofyourarms.Asyougrowolder,youwilldiscoverthatyouhavetwohands,oneforhelpingyourself,theotherforhelpingothers.
8. Thebeautyofawomanisnotintheclothesshewears,thefigurethatshecarries,orthewayshecombsherhair.Thebeautyofawomanmustbeseenfrominhereyes,becausethatisthedoorwaytoherheart,theplacewhereloveresides.
9. Thebeautyofawomanisnotinafacialmode,butthetruebeautyinawomanisreflectedinhersoul.Itisthecaringthatshelovinglygives,thepassionthatsheshows.
10. Thebeautyofawomangrowswiththepassingyears.
1. 要有吸引人的雙唇,請說好意的言語。
2. 要有美麗的雙眼,請尋索他人的優點。
3. 要有纖細的身材,請與饑民分享你的食物。
4. 要有亮麗的頭髮,請讓小孩每日觸摸你的頭髮。
5. 要有自信的態度,請學習你不曾學過的知識。
6. 人之所以為人,是必須充滿精力、自我悔改、自我反省、自我成長;並非向人抱怨。
7. 請記得,如果你需要幫助,你永遠有你的手可以自己動手。當你成長後,你會發覺你有二隻手,一隻幫助自己,一隻幫助它人。
8. 女人的美麗不存在於她的服飾、她的珠寶、她的髮型;女人的美麗必須從她的眼中找到,因為這才是她的心靈之窗與愛心之房。
9. 女人的美麗不是表面的,應該是她的精神層面——是她的關懷、她的愛心以及她的熱情。
10. 女人的美麗跟著年齡成長。
ToAllThepeopleThoseFeelPerplexed給所有迷茫的人
1. Winteriscoming.
2. Oneminutebeforeduty-offtime,thesameroutineday,cleardesk,turnoffcomputer,wavetocolleagues,andstepouttheofficeatthesametime.
3. Thecoldwindremindsmeofthearrivalofwinter.Thedimnessremindsmeofthearrivalofnight.Fromdawntodusk,adaypastedagain.Walkedintosubwaystation,Iamwaitingforthesamesubway;thecompartmentisascrowdasusual.Noisesrisehereandsubsidethere.Pluggingontheearphone,thesamesongwithsamerhythmslingersinmyearandmymind.Lookingaround,everythingisthesame,asurgeoflonenesssprings.Somethingischocked.
4. Countlessdayspast,Iquestionedmyselfagainandagain.Plungedintothehustleandbustlecitylife,whatonearthIhavegot,whatonearthIhavelost.Maybethedecisiontomakeaclearananalysisiswrong.Oneofmyfriendsoncetoldmethatwewouldencounteradilemmaorsomehowitwasalowestpointofone』slifeafterourgraduation.Maybeitistheperiodthatshereferred.Gapsareleftinlifethroughwhichcomesthesadmusicofdeath.It』strue,Iamataloss.Thereisasaying「Thereisnogriefasgreatasthatforadeadheart」,ifmyheartisdead,whatelsecanbetracedonmeexceptendlessgrievance.
5. Stepoutthesubwaywithadeepsigh,lifemakemeconfused,Italktomyself.Backtomyapartment,putthebagdown,startthecomputer,andletthemusicfloodsinmyspace.Theoldalbumwithdustcomeintomysight,howlongIhavebeenputitaside?Sittingonthebed,Iwipethedustoff,andopenthealbum.Youngfaceswithsmilescomeintomysightatfirstglance.It』smyroommatesintheuniversity.Itmustbetakenaswewerefreshman,forweweresoyoungandna?ve.Datedbacktochildhood,Iamhappyprincessofmyfamily,knownothingaboutlife,goodscores,beautifulclothes,withpeerssurrounding.Dayspastedwithoutanyworries.Untiltothemiddleschoolday,IstartedtolearnthatstudyistheonlythingIhavetodo,butIdon』tknowwhyIhavetostudy.Inexplicitdayswerethehappiestday,foryounevertakeitserious,foryouhavesomanytimestowaste.ThesewerethedaysthatImetwithmyfriends,andlast,webecamebosomfriends.Duringthesedays,miraclestookplaceeveryday;laughswerefulloftheclassroom.Thosedays,Ifeltthepurefriendshipthatexclusivelybelongstoyouth.Memoriesflashinmymind,asifitwaswashed,andnamelessandnumberlessimagescomeupvividly.Oncethedoorofmemoriesisopened,itcannotbeclosedeasily.Thewholenight,withacupofcoffee,Iamsittingalongthebed,flippingthealbumconstantly.IsuddenlyrealizedthatIneverlostanything.Friends,relatives,parents,maybetheyareallfaraway,butIcanstillrecallthematanyminutes,what』smore,Ihavethem,andIhavethememoriesthatbelongstous.
6. Nextdayistheweekend,Irideabiketoapark.Thesunisshining,thebirdsaresinging.WhenIputoffsomething,IrealizeIevencanfly.Mythoughtsshimmerwiththeseshimmeringleavesandmyheartsingswiththetouchofthissunlight;mylifeisgladtobefloatingwithallthingsintotheblueofspace,intothedarkoftime.Yes,Lifecanbesoeasy.
7. Everyonewillencountersomethingthatconfusedyou.Everyonemayloseatsometime.Don』tlamentforthepast,don』texpecttoomuchinfuture.Lifeisabrook,itflowssoftly,nottoohastynottooslowly.Manypeoplediscoveritsprecioussideattheoldage.Now,weareyoung,weshallnevercomplain,weshallfacelifewithamoreactiveattitude.BecausetheremustbesomereasonthatGodsendsyoutotheworld.Letyoutotaste,tosuffer,toshare,thenattheend,toknowtheessenceoflife.It』saprocess.
8. Winteriscoming,thespringcomesafter.Theearthkeepsonspinning.