Ittakesonlyaminutetogetacrushonsomeone,anhourtolikesomeone,andadaytolovesomeone-butittakesalifetimetoforgetsomeone.
Don』tgoforlooks;theycandeceive.Don』tgoforwealth;eventhatfadesaway.Goforsomeonewhomakesyousmilebecauseittakesonlyasmiletomakeadarkdayseembright.
Dreamwhatyouwanttodream;gowhereyouwanttogo;bewhatyouwanttobe,becauseyouhaveonlyonelifeandonechancetodoallthethingsyouwanttodo.
Alwaysputyourselfintheother』sshoes.Ifyoufeelthatithurtsyou,itprobablyhurtsthepersontoo.
Acarelesswordmaykindlestrife;acruelwordmaywreckalife;atimelywordmaylevelstress;alovingwordmayhealandbless.
Thehappiestofpeopledon』tnecessarilyhavethebestofeverythingtheyjustmakethemostofeverythingthatcomesalongtheirway.
Lovebeginswithasmile,growswithakiss,endswithatear.Whenyouwereborn,youwerecryingandeveryonearoundyouwassmiling.Liveyourlifesothatwhenyoudie,you'retheonesmilingandeveryonearoundyouiscrying.
只有付出的愛是痛苦的,但比這更痛苦是愛一個人卻沒有勇氣讓那人知道你的感情。
生命中令人悲傷的一件事是你遇到了一個對你來說很重要的人,但卻最終發現你們有緣無份,因此你不得不放手。
最好的朋友就是那種能和你促膝而坐,彼此不說隻字片語,分別時卻感到這是你有過的最好的一次交流!
的確只有當我們失去時才知道曾擁有的是什麼,同樣,只有當我們擁有了才知道曾經失去了什麼。
迷上某人只需一分鐘,喜歡上某人需要一小時,愛上某人則要一天,然而,忘記某人卻是一輩子的事情。
別傾心於容貌,因為它具有欺騙性,也別傾心於財富,它也會消散,傾心於那個能帶給你笑容的人吧,因為一個笑容能使漫漫長夜如白晝般明亮。
做你想做的夢吧,去你想去的地方吧,成為你想成為的人吧,因為你只有一次生命,一個機會去做所有那些你想做的事。
要設身處地的為別人著想,如果一雙鞋你穿著夾腳,別人的感覺可能也一樣。
無心快語可能引發爭執,無情之詞可能折損生命,適時溫語可能消弭壓力,而關愛之聲可能治癒心靈。
幸福之人並非擁有一切,只是盡力享受生活的賜予。
愛情以笑開始,以吻轉濃,以淚結束。當你哭著降臨人世時,身邊的每個人都在為此歡笑,好好生活吧,這樣你就能含笑離開人世,而身邊的每個人都在為此哭泣。?
WindsofForgivenessCanEraseHatredsAway讓「寬恕的風」把仇恨抹去
Thestorygoesthattwofriendswerewalkingthroughthedesert.Duringsomepointofthejourneytheyhadanargument,andonefriendslappedtheotheroneintheface.Theonewhogotslappedfelthurt,butwithoutsayinganything,wroteinthesand:「Todaymybestfriendslappedmeintheface.」Theykeptonwalkinguntiltheyfoundanoasis,wheretheydecidedtotakeabath.Theonewhohadbeenslappedgotstuckinthemireandstarteddrowning,butthefriendsavedhim.
Afterherecoveredfromtheneardrowning,hewroteonastone:「Todaymybestfriendsavedmylife.」Thefriendwhohadslappedandsavedhisbestfriendaskedhim,「AfterIhurtyou,youwroteinthesandandnowyouwriteonastone.Why?」Theotherfriendreplied:「Whensomeonehurtsusweshouldwriteitdowninsandwherewindsofforgivenesscaneraseitaway.Butwhensomeonedoessomethinggoodforus,wemustengraveitinstonewherenowindcanevereraseit.」
兩個朋友結伴穿越沙漠,旅途中二人突然吵了起來,其中一個摑了對方一記耳光。被打的人感到自己受了傷害,但什麼也沒有說,只是在沙地上寫下了這樣一句話:「今天我最好的朋友摑了我耳光。他們繼續前行,看見到處綠洲,他們正打算在那裡洗澡時,剛才被打的人不小心陷入了泥潭,開始深陷,他的朋友救了他。
等他從幾近淹死的邊緣甦醒過來後,他在石頭上刻下:「今天我最好的朋友救了我的命。」他的朋友問:「為什麼我傷你之後,你在沙子上寫字,現在卻把字刻在石頭上?」他回答道:「當有人傷害了我們,我們應該把它寫進沙裡,寬恕的風會把仇恨抹去。而當有人為我們做了好事,我們應當把它刻在石頭上,沒有風可以將它抹去。」
LearntoFacethePresent學會面對現實
Toalarge,themeasureofpeaceofmindisdeterminedbyhowmuchweareabletoliveinthepresentmoment.Irrespectiveofwhathappenedyesterdayorlastyear,andwhatmayormaynothappentomorrow,thepresentmomentiswhereyouarealways!
Withoutquestion,manyofushavemasteredtheneuroticartofspendingmuchofourlivesworryingaboutavarietyofthingsallatonce.Weallowpastproblemsandfutureconcernstodominateourpresentmoments,somuchsothatweendupanxious,frustrated,depressed,andhopeless.ontheflipside,wealsopostponeourgratification,ourstatedprioritiesandourhappinessoftenconvincingourselvesthatsomedaywillbebetterthantoday,unfortunately,thesamementaldynamicsthattellustolooktowardthefuturewillonlyrepeatthemselvessothatsomedayneveractuallyarrivesjohnlennononcesaidlifeiswhat』shappeningwhilewe』rebusymakingotherplanswhenwearebusymakingotherplansourchildrenarebusygrowingupthepeoplewelovearemovingawayanddyingourbodiesaregettingoutofshapeandourdreamsareslippingawayinshortwemissoutonlife.
Manypeopleliveasiflifewereadressrehearsalforsomelaterdateitisnotinfactnoonehasaguaranteethatheorshewillbeheretomorrownowistheonlytimewehaveandtheonlytimethatwehaveanycontroloverwhenourmindsfearistheconcernoverpushfearfromourmindsfearistheconcernovereventsthatmighthappeninthefuturewewon』thaveenoughmoneyourchildrenwillgetintotroublewewillgetoldanddiewhatever.
TocombatfearthebeststrategyistolearntobeingyourattentionbacktothepresentmarktwainsaidIhavebeenthroughsometerriblethingsinmylifesomeofwhichactuallyhappenedIdon』tthinkIcansayitanybetterpracticekeepingyourattentiononthehereandnowyoureffortswillpaygreatdividends.
我們內心是否平和在很大程度上是由我們是否能生活在現實之中所決定的。不管昨天或去年發生了什麼,不管明天可能性發生或不發生什麼,現實才是你時時刻刻所在之處。