BorntoWin
穆裡爾·詹姆斯&多蘿西·瓊基瓦德/MurielJames&DorothyJongeward
Winnersdonotdedicatetheirlivestoaconceptofwhattheyimaginetheyshouldbe;rather,theyarethemselvesandassuchdonotusetheirenergyputtingonaperformance,maintainingpretense,andmanipulatingothers.Theyareawarethatthereisadifferencebetweenbeinglovingandactingloving,betweenbeingstupidandactingstupid,betweenbeingknowledgeableandactingknowledgeable.Winnersdonotneedtohidebehindamask.
Winnersarenotafraidtodotheirownthinkingandtousetheirownknowledge.Theycanseparatefactsfromopinionanddon』tpretendtohavealltheanswers.Theylistentoothers,evaluatewhattheysay,butcometotheirownconclusions.Althoughwinnerscanadmireandrespectotherpeople,theyarenottotallydefined,demolished,bound,orawedbythem.
Winnersdonotplay「helpless」,nordotheyplaytheblaminggame.Instead,theyassumeresponsibilityfortheirownlives.Theydonotgiveothersafalseauthorityoverthem.Winnersaretheirownbossesandknowit.
贏家不會讓他們的生命局限在自己「理當」成為何種人的觀念中。事實上，他們順應天性行事。所以，他們不會費盡心思地裝模作樣、故作姿態、玩弄他人。他們十分清楚愛與裝愛、傻與裝傻、真才實學與故作高深之間的差別，贏家沒有必要藏在面具後掩飾自己。
贏家不害怕獨立思考和運用自身的知識。他們既懂得辨別事實與想法，又不會裝作通曉一切。他們傾聽他人的意見，衡量他人的言論，最後得出自己的判斷。儘管贏家懂得尊重和敬佩他人，卻不會徹底為他人所限制、摧垮、束縛或嚇倒。
贏家不會裝可憐，騙取同情；也不會怨天尤人，為自己開脫。事實上，他們肩負起了生活中自己應盡的責任，別人虛張聲勢的權威不會左右他們。贏家主宰著自己的命運，對此他們深信不疑。
1.Theyareawarethat_________isadifferencebetweenbeinglovingandactloving,betweenbeingstupidandactingstupid,_________beingknowledgeableandactingknowledgeable.Winnersdonotneedto_________behindamask.
2.They_________toothers,evaluatewhattheysay,but_________totheirownconclusions.Althoughwinnerscanadmireandrespectotherpeople,theyarenot_______defined,demolished,bound,orawedbythem.
1.贏家不會讓他們的生命局限在自己「理當」成為何種人的觀念中。
2.贏家沒有必要藏在面具後掩飾自己。
3.贏家主宰著自己的命運，對此他們深信不疑。
1theyarethemselvesandassuchdonotusetheirenergyputtingonaperformance
puton：上演；裝出；誇大；打開
2.Theycanseparatefactsfromopinionanddon』tpretendtohavealltheanswers.
separatefrom：分離；（使）分開