尋找人生的坐標 第2章 愛自己
    LoveofSelf

    佚名/Anonymous

    WhenIwasyounger,Ithoughtthattoloveone』sselfwasvanityandnotavirtuoustrait.AsIhavegrownolder,thatbeliefhaspassedaway,ashavesomanyothers.Thereisavastdeviationbetweenbeingvainandlovingone』sself.

    Weareallinthisworldtogetherstrivingformoreorlessthesamethings.Toconductandhaveourlivescountforsomething.Toloveandbeloved.Tolaughandyes,tocry.

    Weseekshelter,nourishment,amate,warmth,clothing,family,friends;weseekapproval,loveandself-esteem.Weareallimperfect.Oftenduringoursearchweforgettosimplyenjoywhatlifeis.Webecomesocaughtupinwhatcouldhavebeen,whatshouldbe,whatmightbe,thatmanyofourtoday』sarelost.Letyesterdayrest,livefortoday,hopeanddreamforyourtomorrows.

    Ifthereissomepartofyouthatlessensyourself-image,somepartofyouthatpreventsyoufromlovingyourself,changeit,foronlyyoucan.Lifeisfilledwiththingswehavenocontrolover,butourselves,wecancontrol.Youaretheclay,youarethesculptorandyouhavetheabilitytocreateamasterpiece.Theshapeandformarethere.Youhaveonlytorefinethework.

    Isthetaskaneasyone?No.Therewillbesipsandflawsandyouwillberequiredtoworkandreworkjustasasculptormustreworktheclaybeforethepieceiscompleted.Shouldthesculptorthrowoutthepiececondemningitasworthlessbecauseofablemishornick?Ofcoursenot,wherethenwouldalltheworld'streasuredartbe?Idoubtwewouldhaveany.Howmanymasterpiecesdoyouthinkhavebeencreatedinonefellswoop,afirsteffortcompletelysuccessfulwithouterror,withoutchange?Isitpossiblewefailtoseethatmankindisthemostmarvelousofallworksofart?Aliving,continuous,developingworkofart.

    Howoftenhaveyouheardthequestion「whatisthehumanracecomingto」?Theanswer,inmymindatleast,iswhateverwemakeit,forwearetheweaversoftomorrow.Youareatreasure,beyondprice,oneofakind,irreplaceable.Notperfectbutwellonyourwaytobeingamasterpiece.Donotletyouryesterdayshindertomorrow』sachievements.

    當我年紀還小的時候,認為自愛是虛榮作祟而非優點。長大了,我才和許多人一樣,逐漸摒棄了這種觀念。虛榮與自愛有天壤之別。

    人生在世,都追逐著或多或少相同的東西:付出與獲得人生價值的認可;愛與被愛;歡笑與……是的,悲傷。

    我們追求住所、食物、伴侶、溫暖、衣裳、家庭、朋友;我們追求認同、愛情和自尊。我們並不完美。我們在人生追求中甚至忘記了去享受生活本身的樂趣。我們太沉溺於對過去的追悔、對將來的和一切可能性的關注,結果反而錯失了今天。讓昨天暫且釋懷吧!為今天而活,並去勾畫和夢想你的明天。

    如果你有一點輕視自身形象,有一點不願意愛自己,只要你能,改變它吧。生活中確實充斥著許多我們干涉不了的事情,但我們能約束自身。你既是泥土,也是泥塑匠,你有能力創造傑作。現在形態和模樣都有了,你需要做的只是精雕細琢。

    這個工程簡單嗎?不。雕塑會有缺損和瑕疵,所以你必須孜孜不倦,就像雕塑家在完工前必須一次又一次地琢磨一樣。難道雕塑家會因為作品有一點瑕疵就認定它一無是處而把它拋棄嗎?當然不會,否則世上哪裡還有這一切工藝珍品?我想一件都不會存在。你認為有多少工藝品傑作是在雕刻中一蹴而就,沒有半點失誤,也沒有半點改動的?我們可能都沒看出,人其實是所有藝術品中最了不起的傑作吧?人類是有生命力的、生生不息的、不斷發展的藝術品。

    這個問題你聽過多少次——人類將何去何從?至少我以為它的回答是這樣的:我們成就了自己,因為編織著明天的正是我們自己。人本身就是一種財富,是無價之寶,是萬物中無可替代的。雖然人無完人,但應該精益求精。別讓昨天阻礙你奔向明天的輝煌。

    記憶填空

    1.Weareallimperfect.Oftenoursearchweforgettosimplyenjoywhatlifeis.Webecomesocaughtupwhatcouldhavebeen,whatshouldbe,whatmightbe,thatmanyofourtoday』sare.Letyesterdayrest,livefor,hopeanddreamforyourtomorrows.

    2.Lifeiswiththingswehavenocontrolover,butourselves,wecan.Youaretheclay,youarethesculptorandyouhavethetocreateamasterpiece.Theandformarethere.Youhavetorefinethework.

    3.Therewillbesipsandflawsyouwillberequiredtoworkandreworkjustasasculptormustreworktheclaythepieceiscompleted.佳句翻譯

    1.當我年紀還小的時候,認為自愛是虛榮作祟而非優點。

    2.人類是有生命力的、生生不息的、不斷發展的藝術品。

    3.至少我以為它的回答是這樣的:我們成就了自己,因為編織著明天的正是我們自己。

    短語應用

    1.Weareallinthisworldtogetherstrivingformoreorlessthesamethings.

    moreorless:或多或少;有點兒;大約

    2.Webecomesocaughtupinwhatcouldhavebeen,whatshouldbe,whatmightbe,thatmanyofourtoday』sarelost.

    catchup:纏住;很快拾起;趕上
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